Emmanuel Eboue, former Ivorian international and Arsenal defender has revealed that he is broke and sometimes sleeps on the floor in a friend’s living room after several years of playing in the English premier league which earned him millions of dollars.
The 34-year-old disclosed in an interview with British tabloid newspaper Sunday Mirror that he faced a bitter divorce that drove him to the brink of suicide after his wife Aurelie took everything he had including their three children, mansion, cars and their first house in North London where he has been ordered by a court to surrender ownership.
“I can’t afford the money to continue to have any lawyer or barrister. I am in the house but I am scared. Because I don’t know what time the police will come. Sometimes I shut off the lights because I don’t want people to know that I am inside. I put everything behind the door.
“My own house. I suffered to buy my house but I am now scared. I am not going to sell my clothes or sell what I have. I will fight until the end because it is not fair,” Eboue was quoted by the Sunday Mirror.
He narrated his plight as part of the Sunday Mirror’s Time To Change campaign that seeks to fight the stigma associated with mental illness.
He said he was on the brink of suicide as he hasn’t heard from his children since June, disguises himself to use public transport and uses his hands to wash since he doesn’t even have a washing machine.
He blamed “naivety” for his plight saying he entrusted his finances to his wife and she managed all the contracts he signed which left him vulnerable in her hands.
“I look back and say ‘Emmanuel, you have been naive… why didn’t you think about that before?’ It is hard. Very, very hard. The money I earned, I sent it to my wife for our children. In Turkey, I earned eight million euros. I sent seven million back home. Whatever she tells me to sign, I sign.
“She is my wife. The problems with FIFA were because of people advising me. People who are supposed to care. But it was because of them FIFA banned me,” Eboue said, referring to his recently served 12-month ban by FIFA for failing to pay a reported €1million owed to his former agent Sebastien Boisseau.
After the ban, the Ivorian player was signed by Cypriot side Turk Ocagi Limassol where he didn’t go beyond the medicals due to undisclosed “medical problems”.
The once glorious footballer who is known for his impeccable performance with the Ivory Coast national team, Sunderland, Galatasaray and Arsenal cannot do what he knows best – play football – and cannot do another job due to limited education and “shame” of his situation which is driving him to death.
“I want God to help me. Only he can help take these thoughts from my mind. I continue to thank God. I have my life. I didn’t want what has happened. I don’t wish it on anybody,” he said.
“I would accept help from anywhere but if my previous club wants to help me then I would be very, very happy. Maybe I could help the young players? … Maybe I’d see some of the people I played with or against and I’d feel embarrassed. But I would cope,” he hinted.
Emmanuel Eboué’s story is heartbreaking! pic.twitter.com/eDG79CJOTK
— Wọlé II (@Kingwole) December 24, 2017
Eboue’s story has sparked a debate about being cautious in selecting life partners and taking key decisions. Read reactions below.
Emmanuel Eboue’s story is a very sad one. The woman/man you choose is a life partner can make or wreck you.
— Ole Teya (@Kevin_teya) December 24, 2017
Emmanuel Eboue was earning 8million euros a year in turkey after several years of earning 5 million pounds per year in England.
Now he sleeps on the floor in another persons house, has no property, can’t see his kids. Decision making is key.
— Mr. Jack Robinson (@jackdre02) December 24, 2017
I’m not surprised by the Emmanuel Eboue story
I met him a couple of times.
Not the brightest man (he was adorable each time/very religious) but his wife she was pure Fellini Queen. I hope someone on the footballing community helps him. Mental illness is not a crime. #helpeboue
— RED TEMPTATION (@TheArsenalNote) December 24, 2017
Emmanuel Eboue lost his divorce battle to his wife who was in charge of ALL FINANCES, thereby losing kids & ALL properties… Dunno if this is a question of trust & illiteracy but this is a lesson – Your choice of a life partner is key to your happiness as you grow older! 💔
— Series Abíọdún࿐ (@EngrSeries) December 24, 2017
These are really hard times for Emmanuel Eboue. He sent 7m out of the 8m euros he earned yearly to his wife, signed everything he was asked to sign without reading through & now he has lost his kids and assets to this same woman.
Use your BRAIN when signing prenuptial agreements
— Elvis Tunde ⚓ (@Tunnyking) December 24, 2017
O Emmanuel Eboue, these white women will go to court and get the court to take all your assets for them after a divorce. Reason so many people are living in Europe being single fathers.
— ~ dNA ~ (@1dNAGh) December 24, 2017
When you’re rich and wealthy , Love is really a dangerous game to play … just lookat Emmanuel Eboue 😢
from rags – riches – rags
I don’t blame people that do the pre-nup thingy , that lady really reduced him
— OnlyGodCanJudgeMe (@fabolous3d) December 24, 2017
Starting a Gofundme for Emmanuel Eboue. Poor bloke has been left homeless and considered suicide. Let’s see where this goes…
— Arsenal in My Blood (@OldBaldGooner) December 24, 2017
Emmanuel Eboue is not the first of his kind. Many Nigerian footballers post 1994 World Cup suffer his fate. Many from financial naivety (like buying a private jet). Lack of an education(formal/informal) is always a potent conduit to financial ruination.
— HENRY Okelue (@4eyedmonk) December 24, 2017
I just read Emmanuel Eboue’s story and now I am sad. Why some women be wicked so?
— Benjamin Aidoo™ (@Facosh) December 24, 2017