Ask friends and family for help
Many people get carried away when they find a new partner they think has all the qualities they are looking for.
They get blind by love to the extent that they do not see the flaws that are so glaring to others.
This is where your family and friends come in, as they are able to see things more objectively than you.
They can better predict the outcome of the relationship. Your family and friends are usually the most important people in your life and so their views and opinions should not be ignored.