[How To] win over an African man

A black woman and man laughing — theGrio

Be strong but soft

Most African men want women who express soft characteristics and would allow them to be in control. This doesn’t mean you have to be weak, as they desire strong women who can keep the household in their absence and care for the children as well. All they require is for you to make them feel they are in control; that they are the head of the family.