Right after he steps into the room, give your partner a big hug. Kiss him gently and remind him how much you love him. Help him take off his clothes and lead him to the dining table. Serve him the meal. You can even spoon-feed him for the first few bites. The goal is to pamper him. As you do this, start having dinner conversations. But, this shouldn’t be the normal conversations you have at the table – work talk, what’s up with the kids – No. This is the moment to slip in some questions about your marriage. Ask him how he feels about the relationship so far. Would he want anything changed? Is he happy with you? Allow him to ask you questions too.