Be responsible
Always show a sense of responsibility, not only to her but to others as well. Impress her and let her know that as a man, you won’t leave the weight of responsibilities on her alone. Basically, let the African woman know that you are hardworking and can provide when the need arises. This will assure her that you would not leave her at her most pressing time or she wouldn’t have to carry the burden of taking care of the family alone when in difficult situations.