- Falling in love can make you change your character, attitude, behavior, or lifestyle. Are you always true to yourself in relationships? Haven’t you seen people who “changed” because they fell in love with a stranger? Some people even stop going to the cinema or dressing the way they please, just because the stranger they fell in love with wants them to dress in a different way.The best person you can actually be in life is yourself, not somebody else! But falling in love with some kinds of people can make you change your character, attitude, or lifestyle in ways that may not actually be good for you.In other words, if you always try to be someone else and simply can’t be yourself when in love, then falling in love with someone might actually be a bad idea.