
A black couple fighting…photo credit: drctherapist
You two are always fighting
Disagreements are normal and even expected as two individuals will not always agree on every topic that arises during their courtship. Nevertheless, constant issues are a major red flag. As Sue Kolod, a psychoanalyst in New York City reiterated to Reader’s Digest, “As couples get to know each other better, there should be a progression toward more understanding and less misunderstanding,” “Poor communication that never improves is toxic because, without communication, a relationship can never move forward.”