Past traumas are presenting themselves in your present relationship
Some people have had far more challenges in their lives than others. Abuse or neglect may be part of their upbringing. You can’t control what happens in your past, however, your previous experiences do not give you the right to mentally, physically, emotionally, or financially abuse another person. If you’re having trouble getting over incidents that have occurred and significantly affected you and you’re exhibiting those behaviors towards your partner, it’s time to stop, end the relationship, and heal. If you’re on the receiving end of toxic behavior – run and then heal.